I like this video about how stress affects your body and mind.
What is a stress reliever for one person may not work for someone else so you will need to think about strategies that tend to work best for you. One suggestion is to think back to other stressful times in your life and consider what you did in those situations that helped you to deal with the stress. Below are just a few examples of some strategies that people have found effective.
Deep breathing is frequently overlooked as a strategy, but it is one of the most powerful and can be done in every setting. Slowing down your body and decreasing your heart rate by focusing on your breathing can help shift the chemicals in your brain because when you are feeling stressed the chemicals that cause a "fight or flight" reaction are geared up putting your body on edge. By breathing, you are showing yourself that you don't need to be prepared to have a "fight or flight" reaction and it can shift the chemicals in your brain so that you can relax. If you don't know how to take deep breaths (yes, I really mean that - because there are effective ways and ineffective ways), please check out this website to learn more: http://www.lifehack.org/324889/heres-how-breathe-youre-stressed-out
Talk it out! Talking to trustworthy people around you is an effective stress management strategy. You can talk to family members, friends, teachers, religious leaders, siblings, and obviously you can come see me to talk.
Distract yourself with something enjoyable. When used within reason positive distractions can help give you a break from the stress you are currently feeling.
Get the thoughts and feelings out of your head. Journal, write, draw, or color. Any safe source of personal expression can be helpful.
Physical activity is another beneficial strategy for managing stress. Take a walk, work out, dance, run, lift weights, or play a sport you enjoy.
Embrace the power of music. Performing music or listening to music can have a powerful impact on your mood and overall stress levels.
If you are an animal person, spend some time cuddling your pet or Lexi hopes you will come visit her and pet her for a while - yet another easy, positive stress reliever.
Strive to maintain perspective. Even if you fall short of your goals and fail to achieve something you had hoped to accomplish, it does not mean that you are a failure! Treating yourself with compassion and trying not to be too critical on yourself are important steps to help minimize your stress levels.
If you are struggling with feelings of stress, brief or long-lasting, then one other suggestion I have for you is to download the free app called the Virtual Hope Box. It has the option for you to include pictures or videos of people important to you, there is a great deep breathing visual that you get to set for yourself, and lots of other strategies for coping.
Believe me, I know that it isn't easy to deal with the stress of high school so please, remember that I am always here to listen and help in any way possible. Also, know that you have been through bad days before and your success rate for making it through them is 100% so you will be able to make it through this too.
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